Have you ever ever puzzled why generally our greatest intentions can result in surprising penalties? Or have you ever ever hung out with somebody who seems extremely constructive, however after being with them, you constantly really feel uneasy, though you’ll be able to’t pinpoint the explanation behind it?
In at the moment’s video, we’re diving deep into the intriguing world of human conduct to uncover the hidden darkish aspect of 5 seemingly constructive character traits.
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I don't have any of these either. I feel better about myself now. But people still make fun of me because of my slow speed (slow hands). And because I often say something dumb because I'm not thinking.
dude you CANT use the discord call sound effect in the video that gave me a jumpscare
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The voice sounds AI-like
"Wouldn't you agree," is passive aggressive.
Won't Lie, I speak my mind, and some may call it being 'Brutally honest'. I just call it communicating
exactly the 5 things i thought of as negative traits but couldn't understand why these are considered good qualities, especially being organised, self confident, and being value oriented. but somehow I'm in the const process of trying to bottle up my emotions but it's better than earlier. thanks to this video I've been aware of many things and trying to utilise every info i get.
Am I wrong or did I hear some Discord sounds in the background.
Interesting video.
sounds misleading so, please watch the video for clarification.
What are the negative qualities disguised by being too nice? I’m told I’m “too nice”. That doesn’t sound like a compliment either.
I would rather someone brutally honest and real than fake and hiding under a mask
Brutal honesty here! Although, i´m not doing it deliberately. It´s just part of me as an autistic individual.
Also struggling a lot with perfectionism.
Emotional supression has to do a lot with being a man. Society seems to want men to be pieces of rock…
I already know I can be brutally honest, no one has to tell me, and it’s not an excuse to be rude, it’s more so how I get back at my friend for making fun of me, whether they were being serious or not, which they definitely weren’t and that’s what bothers me, the fact that they don’t even realize their jokes are harmful, they make me feel bad about stuff I like or make, like my art and the characters I make “that are just me”, or my favorite colors “being emo”, or even just my personality as some dumb joke, and even though it’s dumb it still hurts, in the end we’re both just jerks to each other, even though we like each other, it makes sense for friends to argue but at this point I’ve gotten tired of them making jokes, but I think the only reason they don’t stop is because I haven’t been very clear, instead I’ve just been returning the favor, so yeah, being brutally honest isn’t exactly a good thing, but the fight to feel better about ourselves is the only reason it’s like this in the first place, so I guess what I should do isn’t to be brutally honest about anything to do with them, but more so about how painful their jokes are to me, even if I could tolerate them, they’re still mean
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“Organization”
I have none of that, to a likely also unhealthy degree
“Self-Confidence”
I’m just an idiot idiot that knows I suck at everything and I don’t look good
Can you explain about " comorbidity
Hello friend, I always found your videos beneficial for my well being, I find enlightenment from your videos. 😊
I feel the honesty one is a two double edged sword, one one side you should not be one of those persons who just goes for example “you have a big nose” or “your decor doesn’t match” out of nowhere, but in the same time if someone asks for my opinion I’m going to answer truthfully and it’s not my fault if they don’t like it
About the honesty one : is it bad to tell someone to shut up when we're supposed to be quiet?
Because in my case if one person make 1 problem, all of us get a punishment, and i don't want us to get in trouble.
I understand they're annoyed by me, but i'm even more annoyed at them for not being able to tell the difference between play time and serious time.
What a crap, lol. Psych2Go is getting worse and worse.
That discord notification gave me a heart attack
This hit me hard. I do almost all of these. Time for some self reflection!!
Definitely have a terrible habit of bottling and suppressing my emotions. I’ve kind of been the emotional regulator of my family, which is extremely dysfunctional I know, but it’s just how life has been. I try to take time to experience and truly process my emotions a few days out of the week, because I’m well versed in how badly it can go if you keep bottling your emotions. It’s taken years, but I can say now that I’m aware of what I’m doing, I try to be mindful and help myself by setting time aside to process for about a solid day or two so I don’t have a mental breakdown.
Thnx
Thank you, Psych2Go! I was brutally honest in my young adulthood, and it contributed to the loss of a sweet friend who I still miss after over 30 years. It is definitely not a good trait, and it CAN be changed.
I disagree with all of these.
We should never thank someone for their honesty – we should expect it. And that doesn’t mean rudeness. It’s all about intention. And people on the spectrum might be direct, but their intentions aren’t to offend.
And people who chew loudly with their mouths open lack manners. It’s a kind of selfishness to be ill-mannered and expect others to tolerate it. If you don’t tell someone they’re being rude, then you’ll simply store up resentment instead. In addition, people are often unaware of the things they do which others find vexing, and it might help if they were better informed.
Orderliness, confidence, a little stoicism and having values go a very long way towards leading a good life.
I enjoy sanitizing hard surfaces far too much; I'm probably too self-righteous amid my ego's lame attempt at "doing good." Ugh!
the title is wrong, is not that these traits are “good qualities disguising bad habits”; when in reality is all the other way around, bad habits disguised as “good qualities”
in therapy, we receive tools on how to be honest but empathetic, emotional strength is knowing how to handle our emotions accordingly with the time and place we’re in, etc.
I think the title of the video and the way is explained make it sound like having these traits is 100% bad, when in psychology absolutely nothing is in B&W, but in spectrums.
I don't like to bottle emotions cause' I know its bad so I'd typically release'm in short bursts.
I automatically repress my negative emotions though. How do I stop doing that?
I always suspected that their was a darkness behind brutal honesty…
I’ve been told I’m brutally honest, but reality is I don’t have a filter and suck at societal norms and social cues. What I said was something I thought was acceptable, but it came out blunt and unkind. Not my intention and just because it’s not my intention doesn’t make it okay. It’s something I myself need to work on 😅
I'm a little direct, but thankfully not to much. I'm on the autism spectrum, and I surprisingly have self control for someone who's quite honest about her opinion. Like, I don't tell people that they're being rude or anything. Even if they are, kinda, I still don't tell them because I don't want to hurt people's feelings. That, and I'm a little bit of a perfectionist. I make schedules ahead of the week, and I try to plan out what I'm going to do throughout the week, with chores and practicing skills and such.
Confidence doesn't actually exist