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Reacting to Sisters Wives Season Seventeen (18) episode 3.
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…..and David why are your pet peeves more important that Allison’s triggers… maybe if she had said that’s my pet peeve instead of trigger … would that be more palliative to you David?
I will agree w David. Janelle becoming abusive there ended everything for him. I understand she is frustrated but if it was me I would absolutely walk away and not turn back.
I agree with David about the whole F you and grabbing him thing. Not that he doesn't deserve it though lol
When I get scared I get angry.
Janelle’s sons following Kody’s absurd and extreme made up Covid rules would have required a total lifestyle change and interruption to their lives. Kody had no right to demand that his adult children follow them.
Kodi definitely not the adult in all of these situations. He is incapable of having adult conversations, of taking the higher road, and doing what is best for his children.
I wonder if Kody is on steroids or testosterone. He certainly does rage like you do on steroids. He used to be pudgy or was when he was standing in the slough, don’t believe he has nice pecs and 6 pack abs. There’s been family annihilators that were on steroids, Chris Benoit for one. Kody doesn’t seem to calm himself either. If he’s far worse when the cameras are off according to some of his kids, that’s disturbing at best
How about pain
I think it’s funny that it’s killing him that Janelle didn’t take his side and is close with Christine. He continues to take no accountability for his actions, he blames everyone for the divorce, he’s relationship with Janelle and with his kids. It’s all your fault Kody no one else’s.
Kody never never lets any of them finish a sentence, he continually interrupts. ITS MADDENING. I notice that the ladies generally stop talking when he starts, to politely let him finish his thought/sentence but he never affords them that consideration. Only when the ladies get seriously irritated enough do they try to finish their sentences over his interruptions. Janelle clearly had enough of it. It’s so rude the way he constantly does that in a disagreement or an argument. Of course he’s not listening to you, he’s already thinking of what bs he’s gonna throw out next.
Kody conflates loyalty with subservience. No, Janelle's behavior in regards to the swearing and grabbing his wrist is not appropriate. However, I think it should have alerted Kody to the level of aggravation Janelle has reached. Janelle is regularly even keeled and her word choices carefully chosen. I think Kody should have recognized her uncharacteristic actions as a sign that Janelle has given up on working through it. I also cannot fault him for leaving as the whole thing had escalated so severely, but it would have been beneficial for them to contact each other and decide on a date/time to discuss the greater issue with rules or boundaries laid out.
The Eff you was completely appropriate. It's essentially self defense. 😂😂😂 sure would have been well within her rights to do worse. Eff you are just words, kody needs his ass kicked lol
I'm with your wife Team Janelle. He deserved all the eff yous. I'd have drowned him in a deluge of "f**k yous".
Kody cheated himself but blames her, was Janelle supposed to use a dummy prop of Kody and pretend to be a father too? That was his jobs.
I felt triggered too by Kody. So Janelle needed to react to his abuse, he provoked her. He deserved the stfu from Janelle. He's abused her and was relentless calling her a liar and says she's alienating him. But he's the liar and alienates them. I'll say he 100% deserved a taste of his own medicine, he deserves it.
Kody doesn't want the other wives, he's cruel. He flaunts the relationship of his with Robyn. Calls Robyn's children "my children" but the other wives are "Janelle's kids" or "Christine's kids". Did he think his children would grow up and he could then establish a relationship? The ones that are 14+ are not stupid, they know who Kody is as a father if they watch the show. He's a father to Robyn's…. They will see him taking one child to school and another getting her ears pierced. But he cannot remember a child's birthday. 😮💨
To be fair, I've told my girls they can't start hosting Xmas until they start popping out grandkids, lol. My oldest daughter offered to host at her place because she does have a bigger kitchen and dining area but still wanted me to do most of the cooking. I have severe chronic pain, though, and cooking that kind of feast takes a lot out of me. I frequently have to go lay down on the heating pad for 10-15 min in order to keep going. For right now, I think it makes the most sense to let me host here where I have everything, and I'm most comfortable. Xmas is about the kids, though. Again, with my oldest… her first couple of xmases, we spent the entire 2 days running around to various family. We had 7 or 8 stops. It was totally unenjoyable, so I put my foot down and said anyone that wanted to see her on Xmas could come to us. I've been hosting Xmas the last 20 years, but it would be hypocritical of me to be unwilling to go to her once she has kids of her own.
I totally disagree.
Janelle’s behaviour is not appropriate of course. But he has been consistently abusive and manipulative to her. Not just in this conversation but ongoing for months about this issue. (From what we see of course).
And unfortunately she lost her cool in this instance. Should she have done it? Of course not. But it was well and truly provoked. On top of that, us buying into that narrative and now telling of Janelle just solidifies Kody’s idea that he is right and justified in what he does. Now he can crow about her behaviour without ever taking responsibility for his horrendous pattern of abuse.
So Kody can be a douchenozzle to all his wives (except sobyn of course), tell them he was never attracted to or doesn't love them, but you're not allowed to tell him to F off..got it..
Just discovered your channel and you two are my new favorite thing. Thank you, Allison, for saying you can’t take another minute of their Covid talk. I agree, it’s just the worst! 😂😂😂
I cannot get a word in edgewise with my husband I wonder if it is a man thing. He is always right and I am always wrong, I usually wind up saying OK flatly
With no emotion, that usually takes care of it.
Only saying, FU is the least. He’s deserves to be told off !
I get the feeling that your wife hasn’t watched the whole show from season one because I feel like she doesn’t really understand the dynamics of the family, and what a manipulating, self centered person Robyn is. AND……Kody is a narcissist, not to mention a total ass H!!!
You do a great job of analyzing the show! I think you’re right on!