What’s fairly privilege? “Fairly privilege” refers back to the societal benefit or preferential therapy that people perceived as bodily engaging might obtain primarily based on their look.
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People have ridiculous tunnel vision when it comes to this topic… yes pretty privilege certainly exists, but it also has severe set backs just like anything else.
‘i like being ugly, that way if they love me i know that they love me for real’
Pretty privilege exists, but it’s also a struggle as well, people do have their own problems, like how society perpetuate a stereotype on pretty people, like they don’t need to try harder or work harder even if they do want to, or because they perpetuate a certain stereotype of beauty, they are just exactly that one dimensional. Like a gay good looking guy who gets all the girls swooning for him when he only likes guys or the prom queen who smiles too much all time even when sometimes she doesn’t want to. Pretty privilege gets exploited all the time for entertainment, for money, it perpetuates that pretty people are perfect and gets away with everything yet don’t need to learn anything else in life other than being pretty with no burden or consequences in life. It manifests to some people becoming manipulative and narcissistic to people all because they get away with their charm and good looks. Leaving sometimes the good looking people with a good heart vulnerable to that kind of judgement.
Being someone with an aspd and to be an introvert with pretty privelage actually sucks. I honestly hate drawing any attention to me but you become popular because of being pretty yet I don't even find myself pretty. People that i talk to suddenly blurt out how pretty i am especially when they see my face close up which I don't know how to respond to as I never really considered myself one.
Case and point: https://youtu.be/lvHJHiIUbvA?si=xp-3pgxCzSbZ9i_G
I think race/nationality can play a big role in pretty privilege. You can be pretty but not get the privilege because that person doesn’t like your race/nationality. Or someone won’t pick a pretty person at all and go for what the see as a superior race. Maybe pretty privilege exist, but I think it’s more subjective to culture.
Pretty privallage definitely exists and ik that bc I am someone who has pretty privallige,and honestly it’s great and all but the moment you start feeling ugly you feel worthless or useless abt yourself at least that my personal experience and you feel like your beauty is the only reason people come up and talk to u,be nice to u, etc but pretty privilege has its downsides too so it’s not all that fun but if I’m being completely honest I like being considered as pretty
The human mind doesn't evolve to see reality, it is evolve to achieve procreation. That there is the most powerful of our flaws, and as social media and dating apps show us, that is not gonna change soon. At the end of the day, is always your behavior that shows you who is really in charge.
Pretty privilege has it’s good times but the grass isn’t always greener on the other side, girls who get pretty privilege often NEED to look good because they don’t want to be treated differently, and yes I’ll admit I do the same. But I’m starting to realize that it’s not about the outside but also the inside that counts.
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When i dress more gay/masculin lifes normal norhing happens in public. Soon as i dress up more fem or wear makeup and tie my hair up i have catcallers, discounts, people talking to me. Its real people…
I can feel the difference when i am with make up and not 😊
I am pretty but no one acknowledgeds it or cares
I thought I had pretty privilege, cos I think I am pretty and people told me I look cute, but I did not get any of those benefits i think tho lmao.
I still got bad grades and was an outsider.
When I learnt pretty privilege exists I told myself even more that I am worthless, cos, if I am pretty than there is nothing else to me; you get things easier than others for doing less, and people hate u for that;
even tho all i remember is struggling with mental health for most of my life and not loving myself.
But it's nice to hear that there is more to you than your beauty; like you are much more than that; thanks for saying that I appreciate it.
Ironically , this is a pretty shallow video about how deep pretty privilege is. There are soooo many advantages to it.
Yes yes it exists ! 😅
This is why being ugly is best. You know people like you for you.
Pretty privilege is real. My sister is very pretty and I'm rather unfortunate looking. At a funeral my sister was approached by a woman telling her she is very pretty and etc. I got completely ignored and a look of shock when I was introduced as her sister. You should see the difference in our treatment from people/family/strangers, it's so insane. In the clubs, I'm treated like shit and once got cussed out because a pretty friend rejected a guy trying to hit on her. To top it off, I wasn't even in their conversation but off to the side on my phone, but I just so happened to be the ugly friend he could throw a couple of jabs at to rebuild his ego.
I wish I was pretty.
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From what people tell me and what I actually mostly agree too i have the pretty privelege, but "fortunatley" i have also a chronic illness, and it's very hard to stay near a person who suffers ALL the time, I said fortunately, because only thanks to that I found a person that loves me not only for my looks, appreciates my qualities, and supports in the every day fights🩷🌸
Just sharing randomly :')
As a person who has been both pretty n popular and the ugly fat kid….pretty privilege is very real but it comes with it's down sides too…I was taken way more seriously when it academics when I was ugly, at the same time my art was so under appreciated…..however when I finally become pretty people started appreciating my creativity but always treated me like I'm an idiot…people also told me how they always expected me to be a bitch 😭👍💀….everything has it's ups n downs
Yes I believe pretty privilege exists but also the most popular I was in my life was when I had lots of friends not because I was pretty so not everything is about how you look
I won't deny that "pretty privilege" might exist in a sense, but I would also like to emphasize that it may be more complex than that. As in, looks alone won't determine your success. To my experience, these who are successful in social terms, tend to be people who are charismatic, regardless of looks. And it might be a bit of a correlated matter with "looks", as it might be easier for someone who is perceived as pretty to feel confident, thereby being more outgoing and sociable. But I have also seen plenty of people who are not noticeably stereotypically pretty, who are very popular due to being charismatic people.
Also, such a "pretty privilege" can also be more of a bias, where people simply assume that you have everything in life going for you simply because they perceive you as "pretty", which can turn into a harmful stigma of sorts. At least that's the situation I have found myself in for many years. I do not perceive myself as pretty (I also have low self-esteem issues) however throughout the years I have received frequent positive comments on my appearance. Thing is, I am not at all a charismatic person. I am socially awkward, have "weird", alternative interests and so on. So what happens then goes in twofold: Your typical popular people initially take note of you, try to cozy up to you… then when they learn what your personality is like, they soon shift to singling you out as a target for bullying. Meanwhile the people who aren't part of the "popular group", even if they would make great friends due to shared interests, tend to avoid you. Often they perceive you as intimidating, as "above them" or "too good for them", thinking you'd never want them (in terms of friendship or relationship). That's for instance what my to this day best friend said when I first got to know her; "I thought you would, like, be one of the popular girls. And that you would bully me". Same with my first love, a guy whom I had been crushing on for years, who eventually came to tell me "I never confessed to you because you simply felt out of my league." To me, both these cases were downright heartbreaking… I don't want the people that matter to me to feel inferior in any way, as that is not how I see them at all.
And even worse: Some just assume your life must be so great, that you could never grasp the struggles of "someone like them", leaving them filled with envy, and often going out of their way to spite you, harass you, or in any way attempt to make your life miserable "so now you know what it's like, too!".
In the end, all of that then leads to a very lonely situation where you are generally ostracized against, bullied, and the few that might actually be compatible with you, tend to avoid you. So in that case, being pretty definitely gets you treated differently… but I wouldn't call it a privilege.
Malena movie from Giuseppe Tornatore with Monica Bellucci would be better to wash than this video.
AM i the only one who cried on poem of rupi???? T-T
As a girl pretty privilege dose exist.
Beauty is on the inside. Give it sometime to discover the inner mind of an aesthetically beautiful person – you might get a package … or you might realise that they only have pretty privilege.
In no way am I stereo typing. I am however suggesting that it is conceivable to witness those who know they are privileged with beauty tend to have inflated egos which isn’t so beautiful at all.
Pretty privilege most definitely exists.
I thought this video was titled petty privilege, I was about to take some notes.
When you do not have a perfect symmetrical face: why me😭
As a young teen I was over 200lbs and it caused me to be very displeasing to look at I was also like 4 10 then I lost 60 lbs about a year later and I grew to 5 3 and I was treated much better when I had become prettier
imagine being korean lmao, it doesnt matter if u are pretty, u still get bullied by people. we get bullied for every little reason
I just watched mask girl and there was this part where the office guys preferred the pretty girl over the ugly MC. They drink after work and they were going bar hopping, so they sent the ugly girl home because who wants her? But made sure the pretty girl stays because what's the point of drinking without the pretty girl? Like, I would rather go home that fawn over these higher ups,. You're invisible when you're ugly but highly sexualized when you're pretty. Because most of the time, it wasn't because you're pretty or ugly, but just because you weren't a man. (I'm pretty sure men suffer from biases too, but at the very least it wasn't because of your genitals)