Do you observed you’ve got pretend buddies in your life, however you are unsure if he’s a pretend pal or she is a pretend pal? Friendships are an essential a part of our lives, however unhealthy friendships can harm our psychological well being. Are you having bother recognizing poisonous friendships?
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The friend who has been drunk for years…
I feel there is something wrong with this suggestion. Aren't those "faux amies" get alone. Even worse, most of people are going to feel identified with the betrayed friend so are going to cut down their relationships without realizing that they make the same mistakes too, so other people are going to shave the relationship with them too. People are going to go out there searching for a "good" friendship, with almost zero chances to find it.
Isn't it going to create more loneliness?
Maybe some people just need a good example…
a fake firend i had was a one that when i shared my acomplishments they always tried to make them seem better snd me feel bad about my self with thie goals, BUT I CAUGHT THEM LYING ABOUT THOS GOALS ANS THAT THEY WERE FAKE AND TO MAKE ME FEEL BAD ABOUT MYSELF
This is prob stupid but im still gonna say it. So i had a friend in minecraft and we had a survival world together i was about to give him a gift but before i could he came and killed me for no reason and sent me to the world spawn thousands of blocks from our base he also constantly ignores me when theres literally anyone else to talk to i just feel foolish for ever thinking we were friends he didint say sorry a single time for what he did
Whatever you going through Jesus can help you, but you have to reconnect with him because our sins has separated from him, ask for forgiveness and obey him, and he will help you, because now you have relationship with God, lot of people only have a religion with him, you have to know his personal:D he is good friend who is waiting for all of you.
😢😢 I trusted my best friend and told every secret of my mine..later I got to know he leaked every secret of mine 😢😢😢 still I forgive him and gave him another chance…and again I got betrayed. It's my earnest request to everyone not to share any of your weak points with anyone.
I am a one upper. Though I never make people feel it. If they say something about their achivements, I listen, congratulate, and try to make them happy. I never tell them my better achivements. And I truly am happy for them. But I always think that I should do better. Not to make them know I’m better, but to know by myself that I can do it better and if there will be a need to, I will. That is because I am starving for success. I need to be the best to achieve the monstrous amount of success I need. That is why I do it. However, I also have “friends” who try to one-up me and I just laugh at them. I know I’m better, or maybe I’m not, but even if I 100% am, I just laugh in my head. I don’t say anything to them but in reality I just think they’re so atupid for trying so hard to be better than me. It’s obvious that they have insecurities because of their families, no studies needed to prove that. But if it makes them happy, I just nod at them as if they are better than me, even if I know they are not. Those are bonus points for me to achieve more because if they think they’re better already when they are not, they will lose motivation while I, on the other hand, will still work as much and more. And it makes them happy to think that they are better than me, so it’s a win-win. But obviously those “friend” annoy me because of their showiness, but I just laugh. Smile and make them feel like they’re better, it’s good for you 😊
Most people are users. Best to step away from people who do not care about you.
I’ve definitely had some one way and negative nellies types in my life plus some fair weather ones too
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Yeah that happened to me😊
Quick question… like what if I’m like this about myself? I’m a silver lining person about my accomplishments and ngl I talk about the drama that’s going in my life all the time with my bsf bcuz I’m still dealing with the same people: my parents. What do I do? Is it that bad?😢
Just recently I've stopped contact with a close friend of mine of 8 years. We had our ups and downs, but I always put everything on hold for her, was the shoulder to cry on and I listened to her problems. Even though she never gave support back to me like I did for her, and when she did it felt sorta half-assed, but I didn't care. She was my friend and I didn't care if she wasn't able to reciprocate the support. At some point, she would be there for my lowest point too….right?
Wrong.
When an incident finally happened to me,where it clearly shows I was a victim as having a bad high, she didn't have my back. Even though I told her about my experience and how i felt about, she told me that she thought it was bullshit. She didn't even give it a 2nd thought.
8 years with this One Way friend,who called me a sister, completely shattered me.
Great tips!
How exactly should I deal with drama magnets?
Nothing is good enough for them they act like they are giving advice on how you should be but in reality you can’t win no matter how you are because they don’t have it in them to just say what they really feel which is I hate you!
I had a "one upper" as a friend for the longest time, I'm still friends with him, becouse ha has gotten a lot better 🙂 But one time I've said, "I've got this new graphics card for my computer!" I was very happy becouse with this I was able to play more powerful games and play some of my existing games without the hassle of the computer being a little slow 🙂 But, he looked at the box for it for about two seconds and instantly said "I've got a better one". That made me sad 🙁
What about the friend that clings into you, seeks for exclusivity, relies on you on everything but when they find a boyfriend/girlfriend neglect you completely?
Have i experienced 1 of the them ? I have experiecend all of them….
well all these things you said that all of my friends said no wonder i had fake friends..
Yep. It happened to me a lot in high school. Now that I learned a lot about fake friends. I stand up for myself as a college student. I stop talking to someone if they don't even try to communicate with me. I have one college friend that is good at communicating with me it's to the point where that other person starts the conversation. The ones in high school just talks to me once and then they don't want to talk to me like I'm a stranger.
Now i know that my friends are fake😢….thanks to the video
What about backstabbers?
Pls make more video about it so i cen be aware
I was hoping to see one that said the “charitable friend” who I found out only hung out with me when I was younger bc their parents told them to when I had no friends at school. But when it came to stuff outside school they left me out, but they would come back to school the next talking about it in front of me
My past experiences are bad now I am like do the true friends even exist ?